JULIA speaks to Strongest Story about why women need find the courage to never stop dreaming, reinvent themselves, and believe that being a mum is enough…

“Twenty years ago I married my husband, became Muslim and moved to Dubai. Our eleven years in this amazingly cosmopolitan environment were heavenly. I was largely a stay-at-home mum (besides a few small projects). While I was perfectly happy, I always had ideas and dreams of one day building my own business. I loved reading and hearing stories of women who had built amazing businesses and seen them through from conception to success.

But as often happens, the crazy whirlwind of motherhood became my number one priority. As a busy mum of three, my biggest joy and fulfilment was, and always will be, my family. I was lucky enough to have the choice to stay at home while our children were young and for me, it was a choice I would make again. However, while creating and nurturing everything and everyone inside my home, I did lose much of my professional confidence outside of it. As my identity evolved, I think believing in myself outside of my role as a wife and mother became harder. Motherhood in itself can be all-consuming and the challenges of balancing family and work overwhelming. As I contemplated a new dream, I did have some concerns: If I were busier could I still give my children what they needed? Would my family function happily if I weren’t quite as attentive? And then the all-consuming question... Did I have what it takes to make a success of a business? After not working for so long, would I know what to do and how to operate it? Were my ideas really good enough? While I was super confident within my role at home, was I really good enough to make it in the business world?

In 2018, having left Dubai and now living in Cape Town, with a far more settled and independent household, I knew it was time to take the plunge. Whilst scared to take the leap, I was determined to bring my dream to fruition…

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A lot of women don’t know how to get back out there. We over think things and want to wait until the perfect time. What I’ve learnt is there is no perfect time. My advice is JUST START! If you have the support of friends and family, the right intention and the passion to drive you to do the work, you’re half way there. Believe in your idea and most importantly have the maturity to know that success or failure in a venture doesn’t define you.  This, along with a little (or a lot) of bravery, are the ingredients needed to take that leap of faith!

Building and watching IMAN Online grow so quickly over the last 18 months has been totally fulfilling! I have been so encouraged by the incredible community around my brand. People have written me the most wonderful messages that have really sustained me and given me the confidence and courage to keep dreaming bigger. My family, and my belief, remain my rock. For me, to trust that the Divine is ultimately in control and that whatever happens will be for the best, makes it all the more manageable. So yes, there’s been much I’ve had to learn, and relearn, but I realise that motherhood prepares us pretty well to take on just about anything and more importantly it provides the most beautiful foundation on which to build anything and everything!”

Personal message from Strongest Story:

My journey with Jules began in the colourful world of art. As two young teenagers, we spent most afternoons in the school art room. The smell of turpentine and oil paint would waft from one canvas to another and we would hardly come up for breath, chatting tirelessly about colours, creative ideas and our proverbial teenage girl-dramas. Thirty years on and not too much has changed. We paint together, run together and do a lot of life and laughing together. With our own teenage dramas long behind us, many hours are spent trying to solve the near unsolvable problems that come with parenting teenagers of our own! I consider it an honour to have Jules as a like-minded friend who dreams big and pushes me to do the same. Yet she always reminds me that being a mother is the most honourable job of all. Julia, Strongest Story commends you for having the courage to be truly you - a mom with all the creative talent in the world and a heart of pure gold! 

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